Liz from 90 Day Fiancé has been getting a whole lot of support from fans for moving on. After her split with controversial fiancé Big Ed earlier this year (we won’t go into the drama if you know, you know!), Liz is reportedly more focused on making genuine connections and has expressed gratitude at least twice for NOT entering into that marriage contract. Many people relate, wanting real love over whirlwind romance – but it’s always an online mixed bag!
Let’s face facts: Big Ed was controversial BEFORE his show appearances. Plenty of viewers felt she wasn’t getting the right vibes from him from the start, with questions swirling about Red Flags #1 and #2, as many love gurus would readily point out (take Dr. Love on TLC’s “Couple Therapy,” as a real-life example!), So for a lot of us keeping eyes on #TeamLiz’ success post-dump? It’s really less about her not marrying Ed specifically and more about the powerful lesson there are ALWAYS BETTER choices to be made in relationships – something I (and many, MANY users online) see playout over-and-over!
Here’s my advice for anyone on the Liz & Ed train: Be real with YOUR expectations. Wanting genuine connection should be NON-NEGOTIABLE if relationship history matters to your own wellbeing. Think deeply before merging lives, especially after whirlwind experiences like theirs. It takes time to rebuild self-love, focus on YOURSELF and create healthier foundations for any romantic choices in the future, just look at those successful relationships who are ALWAYS working hard; think of it as lifelong projects!! Liz might have found that clarity post Split and her example can empower you to redefine your love narrative!
Remember, a thriving life includes self-knowledge and honest reflection. Take Liz’ story as validation – your best romance could start when YOU show up fully authentically, period.
Sources for Deeper Reads:
- TLC Couple Therapy with Dr Love: If reality brings drama to the light with licensed professionals, these episodes are compelling
- Red Flag Posts in Online Relationship Forums (e.g., Reddit sub ‘relationships’)
Lots of shared lessons – both happy trails and cautionary tales